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The Other Side OCB Obsessive Compusive Behavior Everything in its place and a place for everything. We all do this in one way or another. The healthy side is the desire to bring that needed balance to our lives. Is there only one way of doing everything? Is there only one way of defining values? Of course not...... Intelligence is the ability to adapt. How smart you are has nothing to do with how intelligent you are. Ever changing Is the continuance of the human race. Evolution , perpetuation, sustaining. Healthy OCB We strive to be better. We gain and give understanding through empathy and compassion. Putting tools back where you got them. Warning others of impending disaster they might not see coming. Allowing your children to make their own choices. Technological advancements especially in health care. Technological advancements in the quality of living environmentally. This list is very long .... endless. Without Healthy OCB the Result is Chaos Main Entry: cha·os Function: noun Etymology: Latin, from Greek — more at gum Date: 15th century 1obsolete 2 a: often capitalized : a state of things in which chance is supreme ; especially : the confused unorganized state of primordial matter before the creation of distinct forms — compare cosmos 2 b: the inherent unpredictability in the behavior of a complex natural system (as the atmosphere, boiling water, or the beating heart) 3 a: a state of utter confusion <the blackout caused chaos throughout the city> b: a confused mass or mixture a chaos of television antennas Main Entry: be·hav·ior Function: noun Etymology: alteration of Middle English behavour, from behaven Date: 15th century 1 a: the manner of conducting oneself 1 b: anything that an organism does involving action and response to stimulation 1 c: the response of an individual, group, or species to its environment 2: the way in which someone behaves ; also : an instance of such behavior 3: the way in which something functions or operates Give your self credit for continuing to strive for and prevent the chaos. When viewing others, use empathy to gain understanding towards their true motivations. Reward your self when you breakthrough the veil of brainwashing behavior. Everything in moderation , including moderation We are not robots and to gain character sometimes we need to step out of ours to see what it really is. Wishing you well .... Finding your Grounding What does grounding mean to you? How do you define it? Leave comments please. As a varied amount of perception leads to a more clear and concise result. Grounding to me is a feeling. A very concrete and certain state of being calm in my consciousness as well as my unconscious, my physical cells and spirit. Permeating throughout my entire person hood. A unmistakable surety, not an emotion. I perceive emotion to be about, for and through my ego or consciousness. Emotion is a chemical reaction from the brain that travels through the blood, actually creating atmospheric change. Ever consider why children are more closer to the mother's personality then the father's in the first few years? This would be the result of a coping program created during pregnancy when both child and mother share the same blood. We are capable of coping with life by what we learn and rarely but not unheard of, our expanding and creation of new personal dynamics. Grounding is being certain, unmovable in conviction, a knowing. It has no emotional base though emotions spring from this state of mind resulting in personal confidence. Grounding comes about during those rare moments we are actually calm, still, suspended. During panic or anxiety to ground oneself and achieve this state to me is the most valuable coping skill. Something you want a Dr. or paramedic to have when your broken and perhaps bleeding profusely and they know how to react or act in the result of saving you. Grounding is having done everything possible to avoid what you see will obviously go wrong. So much influence in our lives come from other factors. This is not always avoided. Oh well. I tried. When assisting others, be it giving information, physical labor, financial etc. Do what you can realistically without putting yourself at unnecessary risk which will result in being ungrounded. Trying to hard, I have done this which in turn leaves me doubting my intentions and motivations that I started out with. Grounding brings me peace. Beyond value. Beyond comprehension of my conscious mind. The results of which last sometimes for the rest of my life. Through physiology and how we effect others, the results can last forever. What our lives amount to is our legacy. How we are remembered or reflected upon. We all desire to be remembered, a validation of our person hood that no human can honestly not want. Find your grounding , its worth more then any material known to humankind. A personal quote. Make no mistake, Karma is the ruling balance of all thinking life forms. And balance is inevitable. |
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